So why do I feel some kind of way ….
I couldn’t tell you the last time I went out to just chat with a girlfriend somewhere. I am always with my family, which is fine with me. I’m a homebody, and I have plenty to tend to at home.
But .. is it guilt? That I am taking one evening to myself? I’m not getting dinner ready because come on, hubby is a grown man, and these teenagers do know how to cook. I’m taking the evening off, and while I sorta feel bad, I also don’t. Make sense?
Why do we do this to ourselves? Thinking we don’t deserve some self-care. It’s not just me, is it?!?
How easy it is for us to just push aside what we need for others. Yes, we should help others. Yes, we should be there for them. But that shouldn’t mean at our own expense.
So today was just a little rant. I treasure my time with my kids. They are growing up so quickly, and next year one will be gone at college. But for the health of myself and safety of everyone else, I need me time.
Take Care Guys
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